Everyone is not going to like you and you are not going to please everyone. You will always find someone who annoys you. It’s your own responsibility for being happy.
Being happy is a choice and you have to choose to absolutely enjoy yourself the way you are, the way you live and the way god has given your life to live.
Happiness is not about seeking more, it is about realizing the things you get in life. The reason why people fall into depression is because they cannot get enough of what they want.
If you take a society and tell them what makes them happy then no matter how much of it they get they will never be happy because they don’t want it. In simple words, people are never satisfied with what they get.
Happiness and unhappiness are states of mind. So, their real cause cannot be found outside the mind.
Have a peaceful state of mind regardless of your circumstances. If our mind is peaceful and agitated, then even if we have very good circumstances, we will find it impossible becoming a happy person.
In another words, it’s not what is happening that is making us happy or unhappy. It is how we are responding to those things that determines whether we are happy or unhappy.
When I used to see wealthy people driving a car and going in an expensive restaurant, I used to think they were so luck and happy to have that kind of life.
As I grew up, I realized there in no single person on this planet who does not have problems.
Even the wealthiest person on this planet has problem of being robbed or something else. Despite all the troubles you get in life, everyone must learn being happy. The life you get is given to you by god. So, don’t get unhappy for the problems you get in life.